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Thursday, April 2, 2009

Survivor's Stories Shocking

I listened to some survivors tonight, and their stories were shocking and very real. After many years of abuse, the victims seemed to have a considerable amount of emotional and/or mental scarring as a result of past experiences with being abused by their spouses. Even after several years had gone by, they still had a very clear picture of what they went through and how it may affect them for the remainder of their lives. Getting away from the situation seems to somewhat dull the pain and agony but being abused is probably something they will never forget. The cycle of abuse goes on and on for many years without being noticed by anyone outside of the home unless the victim seeks help from police or other agencies within the community. these women describe that the abuser makes them feel betrayed, manipulated, and under total control of their spouse. The victims are often isolated within their homes and not able to leave or have any form of contact with society. The victims describe that the bruises can heal but their soul does not. Many factors can trigger the abuse and cause the abuser to become violent and outraged enough to use deadly force, raise their voice, and even use weapons to inflict pain onto the victim. Anyone can be involved in abusive relationships, whether they come from a wealthy or poor background. Violence has no prejudices. It can happen to men. It can happen to women. Violence can happen to anyone. - Justin

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